Cinta Pertama Romeo, who is she?

Cinta Pertama Romeo

Fokus setiap orang saat menonton atau membaca kisah Romeo dan Juliet kebanyakan akan berkisar pada mereka berdua. Tapi aku ingin mengungkap tokoh yang banyak diabaikan di sini. Cinta pertama Romeo. Bukan, bukan Juliet, cinta pertama Romeo adalah kemenakan dari Capulet, Rosaline.

Rosaline dalam Zeffirelli's Romeo and Juliet

Sebelum Romeo bertemu Juliet, ia mencintai Rosaline. Ia menggambarkannya dengan sangat indah "Semua yang melihat matahari, tak pernah melihat jodohnya sejak dunia dimulai", namun Rosaline tetap memilih untuk selibat. Romeo pun mengatakan "She hath forsworn to love, and in that vow / Do I live dead that live to tell it now". Dalam keadaan depresi itu ia membuat teman2nya tidak senang, Benvolio dan Mercutio pun memaksa Romeo untuk menyusup ke pesta dansa yang diadakan oleh Lord Capulet (Ayah Juliet), dengan harapan ia bertemu Rosaline. Mereka juga mengatakan "Rosaline akan terlihat seperti gagak jika disandingkan dengan wanita-wanita cantik yang lain".

Olivia Hussey  and Leonard Whiting as Romeo and Juliet (1968)

Meskipun ragu dan tidak percaya ucapan teman2nya, Romeo pun tetap menghadiri pesta dansa itu. Dan disana ia bukannya melanjutkan perasaan cintanya pada Rosaline, namun justru jatuh cinta secara tiba-tiba kepada Juliet. Dalam bayanganku, Rosaline mengatakan "Romeo, begitu dangkal cintamu".

Ya, menurutku cinta Romeo memang dangkal, ia memiliki hati muda, hati yang mudah berubah-ubah. Coba bayangkan jika ia dan Juliet berhasil keluar dari Verona dan hidup bersama, kehidupan mereka takkan bahagia. Mungkin Juliet berubah jadi ibu-ibu gemuk beranak lima, atau mungkin Romeo akan jadi pengangguran luntang-luntung. Karena itulah pengarangnya memutuskan mereka untuk mati saja. Bukankah cinta abadi adalah cinta yang dibumbui kematian, meskipun jiwa itu mati, tapi cinta itu yang akan abadi. Oh, omong kosong dari mana yang aku dapat ini.


Bagaimanapun ada sajak yang selalu kuingat dari kisah ini
"What's in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet"
Apalah arti sebuah nama? Mawar dengan nama lain akan sama wanginya.

Serta lagu yang dibawakan Nino Rota pada film Romeo Juliet garapan Zeffirelli.

What is a youth?

What is a youth?
Impetuous fire.
What is a maid?
Ice and desire.
The world wags on

A rose will bloom,
It then will fade
So does a youth.
So does the fairest maid.

Comes a time when one sweet smile
Has it's season for awhile
Then Love's in love with me

Some may think only to marry.
Others will tease and tarry.
Mine is the very best parry,
Cupid he rules us all.

Caper the caper; sing me the song
Death will come soon to hush us along
Sweeter than honey and bitter as gall,
Love is a pass-time that never will pall.
Sweeter than honey and bitter as gall,
Cupid he rules us all.

 

Malangnya si Rosaline, kisahnya sama kayak Min Hyo Rin di drama Princess Hours dan pastinya ada lagi wanita yang nasibnya sama seperti mereka... Berbanggalah memiliki cinta yang dalam untuk seseorang :)

A Crazy Thing Called Love Part 2

DRAMA THAILAND
 I have waited for long time for knowing the continue of "A Crazy Thing Called Love" and finally, I've found its synopsis. I'm excited and not patient for watching this film. Enjoy ya!

THE BEGINNING

• The story begins with the last in interview then Shone will say what he’s been waiting for “Nam, can you be my girlfriend” saying this is what he actually wants to say giving her the dry white rose that Nam give him.

• They become an item in public’s eyes after that.

• Next, the story will reveal some sightings wherein Shone gave Nam letters of encouragement while she is pursuing her fashion career. Even though they are both apart, Shone still made ways to know what’s happening to her. He even went to her first fashion show in U.S.

• It will reveal that Shone also try to do the “9 recipes of love” to Nam.

• The story will reveal that Shone confess to Top after coming back from the camp then Top got mad which Pin heard also. Pin accepted Shone apologies saying she already knows but deep inside she’s hurt. After two years, because of friends’ commitment, Shone and Top are friends again.

• After arriving in America, Nam misses Shone. So, she made notes the things she missed to him. One thing for one day and she pursue more in studying their even though people criticize her race.

• Shone never look other girls even many give intentions. After two years, Top is marrying Mango’n’cake girl who bullied Nam before. But Top later discovers she’s cheating on him. That’s why Shone made a website which advices men about their love problems.

HAPPY MOMENTS

• After the interview, Shone and Nam started their glowing relationship. They date, stroll and celebrate monthsaries like teenagers. They went to the bridge where he tell the story of the squid couple and propose a marriage.

• They both have never got their first kisses.

• Boat is the best uncle of Shone. Teacher Boat and Teacher In were having their marriage and both Shone and Nam is the best man and the maid of honor. They both got the bouquet and the garter.

• Cher, Gie and Nim which are married to funny husbands are fighting who will be Nam’s maid of honor. Nam said whoever gives her the greatest gift will be the winner.

• The button was made by Nam again into a pen’s chain. Buttons and white roses is the theme of their wedding.

• Before the wedding, the couple takes a cruise saying this will be the beginning of more happy moments. No one knows they’re leaving.

CONFLICT

• A bad luck happens. The cruise ship traveling East China Sea got wrecked and sinks. Before they parted ways, they said “I love you” to each other.

• Shone was found by a liberated lady in her 30th in the shores of Korea. She can speak many languages because she’s an interpreter in a company although Shone can speak Korean, too.

• Nam was found by a singer in the Philippines who travels a lot and a former Thai national but stays with his Filipino uncle.

• Both Shone and Nam lost their memories. They also have no identification.

• The liberated lady name Nana was runawayed by three men in her wedding. She’s on a leave from her work to compose herself but to her surprised, she found an angel and named him Hue because he don’t remember anything but call him Cupid because he’s the angel of love send from heaven. She takes advantage on him but in a friendly way and Cupid enjoyed her company. She seduce him and really thanks God for giving her a buffet instead a meal which is Cupid. She also helps him to get identified.

• The singer name Jhong was a single man and recently remembering his mother’s death. He owns a beach house and found a girl on the lips of the sea and names her Psyche because of love at first sight. He teaches her how to adapt in their country’s culture and fiestas and invite her watching his gigs and teach her songs. He’s cute and full of humor even he just staring her without any reasons. He’s a husband material who has a little bubbly friend Thea (from the neighborhood) who always tease Psyche to Jhong.

• Little by little Shone and Nam see their memories.

• Nana and Jhong got their (Shone and Nam) first kisses.

• Jhong decides to went Thailand with Psyche and Nana after resuming her work learn that Cupid is from the cruise accident and decided to surrender Cupid.

REVELATION

• A dream made Shone and Nam remember everything. They both run and went to the bridge where they meet again.

• Nam said to Shone that someone had taken her first kiss. Shone said “I’ll erase it” and he erase it using his thumb. Then Shone remember he, too, give already his first kiss so Nam imitate what Shone did. And there, they make their first kiss.

• They got home like nothing happened.

• Nana found out that Shone is the reason why her three weddings failed because of the post he made for liberated women’s bad habits and the advices he gave to the three grooms. Nana gets angry and slaps Shone. Nana is the true writer of “9 recipes of love” after visiting Thailand to learn their language and culture.

• Jhong is glad that Nam finally found Shone. He went back to his old house in Thailand and opens his memories in the cabinet containing pictures of Nam, diaries and things that have connection to Nam. The story will reveal he also a classmate of Shone who secretly in love with Nam. After he discovered that Nam likes Shone, he makes ways for Shone to fell for Nam. He also owned the button that Nam preciously treasures, is the reason why Shone went to the pool, why Shone knows her name, and why she became popular because he’s the one playing the Snow White video . He believes what her mother said to him that he do things that makes her love ones happy.

• Cher wins the contest by giving Nam the greatest gift of all.

• Shone and Nam get married.

• Shone apologize to Nana and invited her to a party where Nana meets Top.

• Shone has heart ailment he inherit to his grandparents. Nam is worried when he collapse in the party.

• Shone needs heart and luckily he got a donor.

• Shone and Nam decided and want to thank the donor together. The family of the donor gave them a chance to give thanks personally. Shone said he’ll come after. Nam discovers it was Jhong who have a disease in the colon that prohibits him to drink alcohol. (he gets it when her mother died 3 years ago)

• Shone recognizes him and thanks him for everything then Jhong said his final message (like thanking Nam and a lot and happy he’ll be a part on someone she loves {Shone’s heart}) and request Nam to sing his mother’s song which he taught to her. Then, he died.

ENDING

• Top is married with Nana while Shone and Nam visited the cemetery where Jhong was buried. They introduce their son name after Jhong’s Thai name “Kip” and promise him they’ll live out the opportunity he gave them. Nam reveals what Cher gave to her. A song that really fits her.

Pelajaran di tahun 2012

Tinggal beberapa jam lagi sejak gue menulis postingan ini tahun 2012 berganti menjadi 2013. Wah pasti setiap orang punya story and experience masing-masing ya di tahun 2012 kemarin. Begitu juga dengan gue banyak hal yang menarik dan hal yang bikin gue terpuruk di tahun 2012. Saat-saat bahagia, bangga, kesepian dan kecewa gue pernah rasain di tahun 2012. Di awal tahun 2012 gue ngerasain rasa bahagia banget, rasa bahagia karna ada seseorang dan banyak orang-orang yang ada di sisi gue. Tapi itu ga bertahan lama, karna orang itu menjauh, beberapa lama gue lebih suka menyendiri, ga ada temen yang bisa menghibur karna waktu itu emang kelas gue termasuk temen-temen gue lagi PKL.

                Seiring dengan berjalannya waktu gue semakin sadar, kalo gue juga harus menyayangi diri gue sendiri. Gue mulai dari memperbaiki diri, koreksi dari kesalahan kemarin. Dari semua masalah ga ada yang ga ada hikmahnya, pasti ADA! Duka yang gue pernah rasain itu udah kayak tamparan sendiri buat gue. Ternyata dari sifat yang gue punya membuat masalah itu muncul. Sekarang gue mulai belajar bersabar, mengerti dan berfikir panjang sebelum gue mengucapkan kata-kata ke orang-orang yang gue sayangi.

                Gue bertekad di tahun 2013 gue bisa jadi pribadi yang jauh lebih baik lagi, yang berjiwa besar dan sukses dalam kehidupan gue sendiri dan orang-orang yang mendukung gue. Perlu diingat juga satu masalah yang bikin kita terpuruk menangis itu ga bakal mengakhiri semuanya. Gue masih punya keluarga, IWASHOCACI dan temen sekolah gue, mereka berharga banget buat gue. Gue juga pengen di tahun 2013 impian gue lulus dari UN, UKOM, UAS dengan nilai di atas rata-rata mendekati nilai sempurna. Amiin. Melanjutkan sekolah lagi dan menjadi anak yang berguna bagi orang tua gue sendiri. Kalo ada kesempatan gue bertemu orang itu orang yang sama atau bertemu orang lain yang bisa buat gue nyaman entah apa yang bisa gue lakuin, mungkin gue berusaha buat jadi orang yang bisa dipercaya, diandalkan dan menjadi pendengar yang baik. Wah siapa ya? I don’t know.    

Only Hope

There’s a song that’s inside of my soul.
It’s the one that I’ve tried to write over and over again
I’m awake in the infinite cold.
But you sing to me over and over and over again.

So, I lay my head back down.
And I lift my hands and pray
To be only yours, I pray, to be only yours
I know now you’re my only hope.

Sing to me the song of the stars.
Of your galaxy dancing and laughing and laughing again.
When it feels like my dreams are so far
Sing to me of the plans that you have for me over again.

So I lay my head back down.
And I lift my hands and pray
To be only yours, I pray, to be only yours
I know now, you’re my only hope.

I give you my destiny.
I’m giving you all of me.
I want your symphony, singing in all that I am
At the top of my lungs, I’m giving it back.

So I lay my head back down.
And I lift my hands and pray
To be only yours, I pray, to be only yours
I pray, to be only yours
I know now you’re my only hope.

Long Distance

There's only so many songs

That I can sing to pass the time
And I'm running out of things to do
To get you off my mind
Ooohh,no

All i have is this picture in a frame
That I hold close to see your face every day

With you is where I'd rather be
But we're stuck where we are
And it's so hard,you're so far
This long distance is killing me
I wish that you were here with me
But we're stuck where we are
And it's so hard,you're so far
This long distance is killing me

It's so hard,it's so hard
Where we are,where we are
You're so far,this long distance is killing me
It's so hard,it's so hard
Where we are,where we are
You're so far,this long distance is killing me

Now the minutes feel like hours
And the hours feel like days
While I'm away
You know right now I can't be home
But I'm coming home soon,coming home soon

All i have is this picture in a frame

14 Juli 2011

Postingan ini bukan curhatan didunia maya tapi hanya sebagai sarana buat gue berkata tanpa harus bersuara.
    Umur gue yang masih 16 ini, gue sedang merasakan apa yang sering dialami anak perempuan lainnya. ya menyukai lawan jenis hahaha dan berawal dari facebook. Dulu gue sering banget update status hanya mengisi aktivitas di akun gue doang sih sebenarnya, seseorang ada yang berkomentar itulah Dia. Perkenalan yang sangat menyenangkan bagi gue, orang itu bukan orang jauh, dia masih satu lingkup sama gue dimana gue bersekolah. Pemikiran yang sependapat makin bikin kita klop, bercengkrama via sms menambah kenyamanan gue berinteraksi dengan dia.
    Tanpa sadar rasa itu mulai tumbuh, setiap papasan langsung sama dia rasanya gue mau kabur karna gue ga mau didepan dia muka gue jadi merah. Salah tingkah gue ga mau! Hari demi hari gue lewatin dengan penuh kasmaran semenjak ada dia. Dia dia dan dia....... dia yang pernah buat gue merasakan indahnya dicintai dan mencintai. 14 Juli 2011 jadi moment terindah di masa remaja gue saat ini, KRL, stasiun, kota tua jadi saksi kebahagiaan gue saat itu. Kalo inget itu gue suka senyum senyum sendiri, keliling ga jelas cuma berdua pertama ke museum fatahila, museum wayang dan sekitarnya. Keliatan gaya pendekatan yang pinter hahaha ke tempat tempat bersejarah dan bersejarah juga buat gue. Saat pulang dipinggir jalan raya tepatnya di trotoar depan museum bank mandiri menuju ke stasiun kota itulah moment yang mendebarkan, sambil jalan gue denger kata itu... ajakan jadi pacar o em ji saat itu gue bilang “apaan?” maksudnya kaget bukan ga denger.
    Rasa capek gue ilang abis denger kata itu, tapi gue belum jawab tuh! Sampai akhirnya di stasiun mau pulang, sempet bingung KRL bekasi yang mana sampe di cek satu satu paron mana yang KRL jurusan bekasi. Udah ketemu KRL nya ditegor sama masnis wanita, KITA SALAH NAIK GERBONG! Gerbong wanita yang kita masukin ckckck larilah gue ke gerbong satunya lagi karna gue ga mau kedapetan berdiri lagi cukup berangkatnya tadi gue berdiri sepanjang jalan. Akhirnya kita dapet tempat duduk *prok prok prok*setelah beberapa menit kemudian *mulai serius* gue minta ulang ucapan dia yang dipinggir jalan eits kali ini pake bahasa jowo. Mulailah..... gue yang saat itu senyum senyum kegirangan pastilah jawab Yes. Sekian sampai disini.  

Alternatif valentine-an yang beda dari yang lain, yuk lihat :
1. cokelat payung

 

 

2. Roka *nih favorit, jarang bisa nemu yang satu ini*

 

 3. Choky choky 

Silahkan mencoba.......

The Feeling in my heart and in my mind

The first time we talked there was something about you
As we talked, you had my full attention
I lingered on your voice hoping you would say those five words
And when you did I was so overwhelmed I missed it


The next day when I got to hang out with you was more than I ever expected
When I looked into your eyes I knew there was nowhere else I wanted to be
Lying in your arms I realized that I might never get the chance to feel this way again
So I decided that if being with you was a risk then I was willing to take it


After I left that night so many thoughts ran through my head
I wondered if you were feeling exactly the same way I was
I wanted to know what it was that was going on inside your head
I was hoping that what I was feeling was more than just butterflies in my stomach


I spent the whole night wondering what would happen next
I realized that nothing was like I ever expected it to be
Even though I had put up a wall to keep all those others on the outside
You found the one little crack and seemed to work your way inside


Once I figured out what was truly going on inside my heart
There were so many things that I wanted to say to you
I wanted to let you know how much you truly meant to me
I wanted to tell you that I wasn't sure if I could make it without you


But at first I just couldn't find the words to say exactly how I feel
I was afraid to let you know that you had found a way inside
I was worried that if I let you know how I felt you wouldn't feel the same way
But I took a risk and let you know how much you truly meant to me


Now that you know how I feel I'm so scared that you'll just fade away
But no matter what happens I want you to know something
I need you to know that I would never trade you for anything in the world
I would take a thousand painful moments just to spend the rest of my life with you

Cinta itu?

Cinta adalah sebuah emosi dari kasih sayang yang kuat dan ketertarikan pribadi. Dalam konteks filosofi cinta merupakan sifat baik yang mewarisi semua kebaikan, perasaan belas kasih dan kasih sayang.

1. " Ketika kamu sibuk mencari orang yang sempurna , kamu mungkin sudah kehilangan orang yang tidak sempurna yang benar - benar bisa membahagiakan kamu . "

2. " JANGAN MENGELUH jika orang yang kamu cintai tidak mencintaimu . Kenapa ? Di tempat lain mungkin ada orang yang mencintaimu , tetapi kamu tidak mencintainya kembali , sebut saja itu BALASANYA . "

3. " Jika kamu memilih untuk membangun tembok di sekitar hatimu , buatlah itu cukup rendah agar CINTA lebih mudah untuk memanjatnya . "

4. " Mengatakan "AKUMENCINTAIMU" lebih baik daripada mengatakan " AKU MENCINTAIMU " karena dalam "AKUMENCINTAIMU" tidak memberika ruang/spasi untuk hinggapnya kebohongan . "

5. " Kamu adalah bagian yang hilang dari kehidupan orang lain , sama seperti sebuah puzzel yang hilang , kamu mungkin tidak pernah tahu di mana kamu akan cocok untuk menutup lubang dalam hidup orang lain dengan potongan-potongan kamu . Jadi jika kamu kehabisan alasan untuk hidup , ingatlah bahwa kehidupan orang lain tidak akan pernah lengkap tanpa kamu. "

6." Pertemuan denganmu adalah takdir , menjadi temanmu adalah pilihan , tapi jatuh cinta denganmu di luar kendali saya ."

7." Kamu tau bawha kamu sedang jatuh cinta ketika kamu tidak ingin tidur di malam hari karena hidupmu lebih baik daripada mimpi "

8." Pertama kali aku melihatmu , aku takut untuk bicara denganmu , pertama kali berbicara denganmu , aku takut menyukaimu . Pertama kali aku menyukaimu , aku takut mencintaimu . Sekarang aku mencintaimu dan aku takut kehilanganmu "

9." Mencintai seseorang tidak memerlukan alasan . Jika kamu dapat menjelaskan mengapa kamu mencintai seseorang , itu bukan "CINTA" .. itu "SUKA"

10." Kemarin malam aku mengirim malaikat untuk mengawasimu sewaktu tidur . Tetapi malaikat itu kembali lebih awal , aku bertanya kenapa ? dia mengatakan " Malaikat tidak menjaga Malaikat lain "  ◠‿◠

Perhaps Love

Aku tidak tahu kapan semuanya dimulai
Ketika kepalaku menjadi pusing dengan pikiran kamu

Pikiran ini sering muncul dalam pikiranku
Aku merasa cemas karena hati saya mengembang ke arah Anda

Bukan apa-apa .. itu hanya hal kecil
Kata-kata Anda yang aneh bagi saya

Apakah itu cinta? Jika Anda merasakan hal yang sama, apakah itu awal?
Hatiku terus mengatakan itu mengasihi Anda
Ini jeritan keluar untuk seluruh dunia mendengar
Mengapa itu diambil begitu lama bagi saya untuk mendengarnya ~?
Kami akhirnya bertemu .. akhirnya menemukan cinta

Jika saya ingin menunjukkan kepada Anda bagaimana saya merasa
Satu-satunya cara akan bagi Anda untuk menjadi saya

Saya sudah dalam diri Anda
Sama seperti Anda sedang dalam diriku

Satu sama lain [satu sama lain]
Kita mungkin sudah terlalu terbiasa

Apakah itu cinta? Jika Anda merasakan hal yang sama, apakah itu awal?
Hatiku terus mengatakan itu mengasihi Anda
Ini jeritan keluar untuk seluruh dunia mendengar
Mengapa itu diambil begitu lama bagi saya untuk mendengarnya ~?
Kami akhirnya bertemu .. akhirnya menemukan cinta

Ketika saya berpikir tentang hal ini [ketika saya berpikir tentang hal ini]
Saya menyadari betapa banyak saat-saat ada ketika hati saya bergetar
Saya akan mencoba yang sulit karena saya terlambat menyadari perasaan saya

Aku akan dengan Anda, saya hanya akan memberikan kenangan indah
Tolong jangan pernah tinggalkan aku lagi
Bahkan saat-saat terpendek tanpa anda membuat saya tidak tenang
Harap tetap oleh saya ~